Yes...I know it has been a little of forever since I have written on here and I do apologize. 
 
I
  was asked by a friend what are some things that I learned or practices
  while on deputation...after reading my response to Kenny, he told me 
to  post this on my blog...being the, ahem...'ever-obedient helpmeet' 
here  goes. :)  
These are not in order by what is most important...we all should know GOD is first and formost, then family...
1. 
  Remember, God called you and He will provide.  Trust Him and He will  
 get you there in the time frame that HE wants you there...don't get   
caught up in this, "bless God it only took so-and-so ten months to get  
 to the field!"
2. 
 You are in God's will the  moment you said yes to  go...be 
soul-conscious for your path will cross  with many you would have  never
 met.
3. 
 Continue raising your kids  the way God  directs...don't do anything 
toward your children because of  worry what  someone else thinks...or 
because they voice their "opinion"  of what you  should do... but pray 
for wisdom and guidance to take good  advice.
4 
 You  and your kids are  entering a very unstable environment, so don't 
let  things that matter  slide...devotions, time with each other, 
etc...take  time to stop and  see things!  Enjoy this adventure God has 
allowed you  to experience.   Make it a wonderful time of adventure for 
your  kids...memories are a  blessing in later years.  You're not on an 
ongoing  vacation but you're  also not on a 24/7 24/7 time clock for the
  churches.
5 
 Don't feel guilty about taking  care of your  family...and for those 
who have family and friends who do  not understand  this calling...don't
 feel guilty about serving God.  
6. 
 Be  yourself...be  yourself...be yourself...comply with the standards 
of the  churches you  visit...don't lower your standards, though.  Show 
respect,  but remember  you're not on a reality show to win big, you are
 following  God...in a  training, faith-building session.  
7. 
 You can learn  something from  everyone, what to do and not to do.  
You're not there to  "fix" them  and God can use many different people 
to get you on the  field.
8.  Get to know the people more than the other missionaries at conferences.  This is to build your prayer support!
9.  Realize and appreciate what others sacrifice for you, big and small.
10.  Pray and work to be a blessing to the churches.  Its easy to get use to 'gettin' and not so much to 'givin'...
11. 
 ...and please remember, your  attitude reflects your faith, and it 
makes all the difference in the  world to you, your family and those 
around you.
Our  motto was....well, if it gets rough, it'll make a good prayer letter!  (..but in this, never gripe about the churches) 
12.  By the way, don't get  caught up in discussions with other missionaries complaining about  churches and pastors.  
Proverbs 3:5 & 6  and  
Romans 12:1  & 2 should be before us at all times.  We all know 
 them, but do we  really believe and follow them?
I am sure there are many that could add many valuable things to this  
list as it isn't an 'Everything you need to know about deputation'  
list...but it can help you to stay  focused on whats important!